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  1. StripedFashion
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    What constitutes a real GFE?

    Though thoughts on what constitutes at real Girl Friend Experience is, like one fellow hobbyist said, "subjective", I'm sure we all have our own idea. I only see escorts but I know this also applies to the mongers into AMP and SW scene as well.

    I re-worded it around a little, but a mainstream website (wikipedia) lists GFE as:
    "An escort that offers sessions that last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/or french kissing, cuddling and foreplay.
    Me? I usually go by the (*Ahem* "loose") definition above, since it's always been the guideline I've followed. Also, I only list "GFE" in my reports if they advertise as one and actually provide the service, regardless if I'm lucky enough to get a BBBJ, CIM, etc. Though DFK and DATY is a must. Girl, if ya REALLY want me 'tah rate cha, I gotta taste ya!

    My favorite GFE escorts to date:

    -The entire Volcano Girl GFE catalog (Misty #1), cept I haven't tried Lisa yet.
    -Visiting Nihonjin provider from NYC: Mimi/Sarina/Kyoko/Yuki (same girl)
    -Lady Jade on Backpage (former VG), who is probably the prettiest
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  2. StripedFashion
    Inactive

    What constitutes a real GFE?

    Though thoughts on what constitutes at real Girl Friend Experience is, like one fellow hobbyist said, "subjective", I'm sure we all have our own idea. I only see escorts but I know this also applies to the mongers into AMP and SW scene as well.

    I re-worded it around a little, but a mainstream website (wikipedia) lists GFE as:
    "An escort that offers sessions that last longer and are "no rush," which means the call girl spends the full advertised time rather than rushing out after the sex is over. Common activities usually offered by GFE escorts include kissing and/or french kissing, cuddling and foreplay.
    Me? I usually go by the (*Ahem* "loose") definition above, since it's always been the guideline I've followed. Also, I only list "GFE" in my reports if they advertise as one and actually provide the service, regardless if I'm lucky enough to get a BBBJ, CIM, etc. Though DFK and DATY is a must. Girl, if ya REALLY want me 'tah rate cha, I gotta taste ya!

    My favorite GFE escorts to date:

    -The entire Volcano Girl GFE catalog (Misty #1), cept I haven't tried Lisa yet.
    -Visiting Nihonjin provider from NYC: Mimi/Sarina/Kyoko/Yuki (same girl)
    -Lady Jade on Backpage (former VG), who is probably the prettiest
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  3. Darkman808
    Inactive

    Gfe?

    Yep. I agree about the "loose" use of GFE.

    I enjoy when a girl goes the extra miles with service and more importantly, I tip her accordingly.

    What do I think GFE is. A girlfriend experience. What my girlfriend used to do.

    A warm embrace and kiss when I walk in.
    Soft chatting and inquiring about "me" and how I am.
    She removes my clothes from me.
    She massages me without asking.
    She pampers me.
    She brings me water before I ask.
    She says, "lay down and relax."
    She initiates the "deed" and goes for it.
    She goes down on Mr. Johnson, with a smile on her face like "Oh boy I can't wait to taste him!"
    She tells me to fuck her.
    She says "don't stop"
    She says "Yes, just like that"
    She cums when I eat her out, maybe twice.
    She 'gets me there', knowing it might take a little longer now that I'm older.
    She's patient.
    She enjoys me cumming anywhere I want and smiles.
    She cleans me up.
    She's not in a hurry to get out of bed.
    She lays there next to me for awhile.
    Though it rarely happens, if round two starts, she's game.
    She takes me to the shower.
    She dries me off and gets me dressed.
    She says thanks and says she enjoyed it.

    Never asks for the money. When she gets it, doesn't count it in front of me.

    Believe it or not. I've actually had a few rare experiences like that. But those girls are a rare exception. At least thats IMHO.

    Now. How about the PSE (Porn Star Experience)?

    That would include all the above but with a very receptive and smiling CIM or on face and a smile after that! She's have to act like shes enjoying it as much as you. Greek might be included in this.

    Of course, bareback is a given.

    THAT. Is worth the hunt. Yikes!

    Happy mongering boyz! Stay safe.

    Remember. Enjoy your hobby before Obama taxes this too!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  4. Darkman808
    Inactive

    Gfe?

    Yep. I agree about the "loose" use of GFE.

    I enjoy when a girl goes the extra miles with service and more importantly, I tip her accordingly.

    What do I think GFE is. A girlfriend experience. What my girlfriend used to do.

    A warm embrace and kiss when I walk in.
    Soft chatting and inquiring about "me" and how I am.
    She removes my clothes from me.
    She massages me without asking.
    She pampers me.
    She brings me water before I ask.
    She says, "lay down and relax."
    She initiates the "deed" and goes for it.
    She goes down on Mr. Johnson, with a smile on her face like "Oh boy I can't wait to taste him!"
    She tells me to fuck her.
    She says "don't stop"
    She says "Yes, just like that"
    She cums when I eat her out, maybe twice.
    She 'gets me there', knowing it might take a little longer now that I'm older.
    She's patient.
    She enjoys me cumming anywhere I want and smiles.
    She cleans me up.
    She's not in a hurry to get out of bed.
    She lays there next to me for awhile.
    Though it rarely happens, if round two starts, she's game.
    She takes me to the shower.
    She dries me off and gets me dressed.
    She says thanks and says she enjoyed it.

    Never asks for the money. When she gets it, doesn't count it in front of me.

    Believe it or not. I've actually had a few rare experiences like that. But those girls are a rare exception. At least thats IMHO.

    Now. How about the PSE (Porn Star Experience)?

    That would include all the above but with a very receptive and smiling CIM or on face and a smile after that! She's have to act like shes enjoying it as much as you. Greek might be included in this.

    Of course, bareback is a given.

    THAT. Is worth the hunt. Yikes!

    Happy mongering boyz! Stay safe.

    Remember. Enjoy your hobby before Obama taxes this too!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  5. Coco Nutzz
    Member

    Great topic!

    This has been much debated and I believe this to be a personal thing. For me, I am not willing to give extra for GFE...but PSE is a definite yes. I don't mind shelling out the extra moolah for things I dare not ask my gf to do. As I write this it seems pretty sad that I can't discuss it like an adult with my SO. But how does one ask if it is ok to slide a toy in her rear while I am boning her or have her devour my rim with her tongue. I guess I am in the boat where I am paying for a service and to do things I haven't done before...2 girls at the same time? Hehehehe. But to each his own, so my definition would be kissing, DATY, and not really just a pounding more like a rhythmic beat that increases until pop. PSE would be anything goes, multiples, cum on and in every possible hole and just the girl being the sluttiest possible ***** she can be! Hehehehe. God I miss penny!!!!!!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  6. Puinsai808
    Inactive

    G F E

    Bruddah SF,

    Great topic!

    As I read doing research, GFE includes standard FS plus BBBJ, DFK, DATY and CFS. If any of the bodily fluid exhange acts are not present, it is not GFE.

    PSE is GFE plus BBFS with CIP, CIM, cum anywhere you wish.

    The main variable with GFE and PSE over standard half / half service is the degree of fluid exchage / protection.

    If providers are advertising GFE, I ask them if they know the definition of GFE beforehand. For me, It MUST be ALL GFE bodily fluid exchange acts ARE being offered whether I choose to partake in the specific act or not....pu
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  7. Kaminari
    Inactive

    Gfe

    After she does everything in her power to make you bust your nut she then gives you a sweet gentle kiss and makes you a sandwich and brings you a beer!...just my opinion lolz...

    ~kaminari
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  8. StripedFashion
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by Darkman808
    A warm embrace and kiss when I walk in.
    Soft chatting and inquiring about "me" and how I am.
    She removes my clothes from me.
    She massages me without asking.
    She pampers me.
    She brings me water before I ask.
    She says, "lay down and relax."
    She initiates the "deed" and goes for it.
    She goes down on Mr. Johnson, with a smile on her face like "Oh boy I can't wait to taste him!"
    She tells me to fuck her.
    She says "don't stop"
    She says "Yes, just like that"
    She cums when I eat her out, maybe twice.
    She 'gets me there', knowing it might take a little longer now that I'm older.
    She's patient.
    She enjoys me cumming anywhere I want and smiles.
    She cleans me up.
    She's not in a hurry to get out of bed.
    She lays there next to me for awhile.
    Though it rarely happens, if round two starts, she's game.
    She takes me to the shower.
    She dries me off and gets me dressed.
    She says thanks and says she enjoyed it.
    I honestly never had a GFE that intimate. That is probably why I envy you my brother but I'm surprised you didn't list:

    She prostates picks and nibbles
    She licks your chode/perineum/piece of bare flesh between your scrotum and fut hole, the same way Jenna Jameson eats snatch.

    Getting my chode rubbed before nutting is one thing, but I REALLY love it when chicks tongue under my nuts during BJ. Shit drives me wild!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  9. Michael Scott
    Member

    Originally Posted by StripedFashion

    My favorite GFE escorts to date:

    -The entire Volcano Girl GFE catalog (Misty #1), cept I haven't tried Lisa yet.
    -Visiting Nihonjin provider from NYC: Mimi/Sarina/Kyoko/Yuki (same girl)
    -Lady Jade on Backpage (former VG), who is probably the prettiest
    I must agree with brother SF on Jade. A great GFE, but as I've mentioned before a little on the pricer side.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  10. Coco_Nutzz
    Inactive

    Great topic!

    This has been much debated and I believe this to be a personal thing. For me, I am not willing to give extra for GFE...but PSE is a definite yes. I don't mind shelling out the extra moolah for things I dare not ask my gf to do. As I write this it seems pretty sad that I can't discuss it like an adult with my SO. But how does one ask if it is ok to slide a toy in her rear while I am boning her or have her devour my rim with her tongue. I guess I am in the boat where I am paying for a service and to do things I haven't done before...2 girls at the same time? Hehehehe. But to each his own, so my definition would be kissing, DATY, and not really just a pounding more like a rhythmic beat that increases until pop. PSE would be anything goes, multiples, cum on and in every possible hole and just the girl being the sluttiest possible ***** she can be! Hehehehe. God I miss penny!!!!!!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  11. Coco Nutzz
    Member

    Great topic!

    This has been much debated and I believe this to be a personal thing. For me, I am not willing to give extra for GFE...but PSE is a definite yes. I don't mind shelling out the extra moolah for things I dare not ask my gf to do. As I write this it seems pretty sad that I can't discuss it like an adult with my SO. But how does one ask if it is ok to slide a toy in her rear while I am boning her or have her devour my rim with her tongue. I guess I am in the boat where I am paying for a service and to do things I haven't done before...2 girls at the same time? Hehehehe. But to each his own, so my definition would be kissing, DATY, and not really just a pounding more like a rhythmic beat that increases until pop. PSE would be anything goes, multiples, cum on and in every possible hole and just the girl being the sluttiest possible ***** she can be! Hehehehe. God I miss penny!!!!!!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  12. Puinsai808
    Inactive

    G F E

    Bruddah SF,

    Great topic!

    As I read doing research, GFE includes standard FS plus BBBJ, DFK, DATY and CFS. If any of the bodily fluid exhange acts are not present, it is not GFE.

    PSE is GFE plus BBFS with CIP, CIM, cum anywhere you wish.

    The main variable with GFE and PSE over standard half / half service is the degree of fluid exchage / protection.

    If providers are advertising GFE, I ask them if they know the definition of GFE beforehand. For me, It MUST be ALL GFE bodily fluid exchange acts ARE being offered whether I choose to partake in the specific act or not....pu
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  13. Kaminari
    Inactive

    Gfe

    After she does everything in her power to make you bust your nut she then gives you a sweet gentle kiss and makes you a sandwich and brings you a beer!...just my opinion lolz...

    ~kaminari
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  14. StripedFashion
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by Darkman808
    A warm embrace and kiss when I walk in.
    Soft chatting and inquiring about "me" and how I am.
    She removes my clothes from me.
    She massages me without asking.
    She pampers me.
    She brings me water before I ask.
    She says, "lay down and relax."
    She initiates the "deed" and goes for it.
    She goes down on Mr. Johnson, with a smile on her face like "Oh boy I can't wait to taste him!"
    She tells me to fuck her.
    She says "don't stop"
    She says "Yes, just like that"
    She cums when I eat her out, maybe twice.
    She 'gets me there', knowing it might take a little longer now that I'm older.
    She's patient.
    She enjoys me cumming anywhere I want and smiles.
    She cleans me up.
    She's not in a hurry to get out of bed.
    She lays there next to me for awhile.
    Though it rarely happens, if round two starts, she's game.
    She takes me to the shower.
    She dries me off and gets me dressed.
    She says thanks and says she enjoyed it.
    I honestly never had a GFE that intimate. That is probably why I envy you my brother but I'm surprised you didn't list:

    She prostates picks and nibbles
    She licks your chode/perineum/piece of bare flesh between your scrotum and fut hole, the same way Jenna Jameson eats snatch.

    Getting my chode rubbed before nutting is one thing, but I REALLY love it when chicks tongue under my nuts during BJ. Shit drives me wild!
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  15. Michael_Scott
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by StripedFashion

    My favorite GFE escorts to date:

    -The entire Volcano Girl GFE catalog (Misty #1), cept I haven't tried Lisa yet.
    -Visiting Nihonjin provider from NYC: Mimi/Sarina/Kyoko/Yuki (same girl)
    -Lady Jade on Backpage (former VG), who is probably the prettiest
    I must agree with brother SF on Jade. A great GFE, but as I've mentioned before a little on the pricer side.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  16. Michael Scott
    Member

    Originally Posted by StripedFashion

    My favorite GFE escorts to date:

    -The entire Volcano Girl GFE catalog (Misty #1), cept I haven't tried Lisa yet.
    -Visiting Nihonjin provider from NYC: Mimi/Sarina/Kyoko/Yuki (same girl)
    -Lady Jade on Backpage (former VG), who is probably the prettiest
    I must agree with brother SF on Jade. A great GFE, but as I've mentioned before a little on the pricer side.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  17. Makana9
    Inactive

    Leave it to

    Braddah SF for a great topic again, mahalos

    I know I have discussed this in the past, and just posted one just a bit ago about this GFE toughts

    Subjective subject

    While one might think he is getting a GFE exp., others might say nopes, its it the eye of the mongerer, no matter if newbie or a exp. mongerer, all have their special wishes on this one

    Personally, I can only name some where I got a GFE exp., & don't mix it up with a PSE exp.

    To each their own, opens the door, hot as a SB, LFK, Caressing, hug/holds your hand while moving to sit, openess, no rush, a nice connection-wala au relaxation, makes you feel its all about you, comfort, just in the moment type of thing/massage, DFK, misc. mutual stimz, daty to O'z, BB(it depends)eye contacts, smiles/moans, rhythmic pounding/multiples, lays there with ya playful caressing for multiple rounds, stuff like that.

    Again, IMHO, but I pretty muched named what I see & have gotten in GFE mongering
    I will add my GFE mongerings.

    ~VG ladies: Nikki & Lei
    ~Jade from Taiwan(past biz trips)
    ~Lia - IMHO, I always had a great time with her YMMV
    ~Italian Nikki
    ~Lisa (drugs done her in)

    ~PSE Miko L & UTR M.T.

    Also, my 2 cents

    Great topic again SF

    Gonne be fun reading for the coming weeks

    Be safe

    K
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  18. Makana9
    Inactive

    Leave it to

    Braddah SF for a great topic again, mahalos

    I know I have discussed this in the past, and just posted one just a bit ago about this GFE toughts

    Subjective subject

    While one might think he is getting a GFE exp., others might say nopes, its it the eye of the mongerer, no matter if newbie or a exp. mongerer, all have their special wishes on this one

    Personally, I can only name some where I got a GFE exp., & don't mix it up with a PSE exp.

    To each their own, opens the door, hot as a SB, LFK, Caressing, hug/holds your hand while moving to sit, openess, no rush, a nice connection-wala au relaxation, makes you feel its all about you, comfort, just in the moment type of thing/massage, DFK, misc. mutual stimz, daty to O'z, BB(it depends)eye contacts, smiles/moans, rhythmic pounding/multiples, lays there with ya playful caressing for multiple rounds, stuff like that.

    Again, IMHO, but I pretty muched named what I see & have gotten in GFE mongering
    I will add my GFE mongerings.

    ~VG ladies: Nikki & Lei
    ~Jade from Taiwan(past biz trips)
    ~Lia - IMHO, I always had a great time with her YMMV
    ~Italian Nikki
    ~Lisa (drugs done her in)

    ~PSE Miko L & UTR M.T.

    Also, my 2 cents

    Great topic again SF

    Gonne be fun reading for the coming weeks

    Be safe

    K
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  19. Harry5142
    Inactive

    The definition of GFE varies from hobbyist to hobbyist but the bottom line is that, however way you define it, you'll know when you've had it. You'll walk out of where ever you're at and say to yourself "that was some good poon, and I can't wait to get back to get some more."

    As for my most memorable GFE's:

    There was the time that Cherry then of CHM let me nut in her mouth.

    There are the times when I visit Erica at Angel and she blows me in the shower room. I've always enjoyed fucking her.

    There were the times when I nutted on Suha's chest. This was back when she was Cindy at Rappongi. One of those times missed and hit her in the eye. That was the last time it ever happened.

    I once plundered June of VIP in the ass. It happened spotaneousely and I was surprised that she was willing to do it. Of course I've had many mind bending fuck sessions with June. She was a real freak. Nowadays she management. Too bad. She's amazingly talented.

    I've had many nice sessions with Tasha of Rappongi, but there was one in which the fucking was so incredible, I had exerted myself to the point of cardiac arrest. Or at least it felt that way.

    I've had several sessions with a white girl at VIP named Hazel. She's got an edgy personality but she can be a fun fuck. On the top on the bottom doggy style, she's a good lay for a white girl anyways.

    That's all I can remember for now. Monger and enjoy.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  20. Niceguy808
    Inactive

    Ginger Spyce

    She always gives me the GFE when I see her. Too bad she doesn't come to Hawaii as often as she used to.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  21. Harry5142
    Inactive

    The definition of GFE varies from hobbyist to hobbyist but the bottom line is that, however way you define it, you'll know when you've had it. You'll walk out of where ever you're at and say to yourself "that was some good poon, and I can't wait to get back to get some more."

    As for my most memorable GFE's:

    There was the time that Cherry then of CHM let me nut in her mouth.

    There are the times when I visit Erica at Angel and she blows me in the shower room. I've always enjoyed fucking her.

    There were the times when I nutted on Suha's chest. This was back when she was Cindy at Rappongi. One of those times missed and hit her in the eye. That was the last time it ever happened.

    I once plundered June of VIP in the ass. It happened spotaneousely and I was surprised that she was willing to do it. Of course I've had many mind bending fuck sessions with June. She was a real freak. Nowadays she management. Too bad. She's amazingly talented.

    I've had many nice sessions with Tasha of Rappongi, but there was one in which the fucking was so incredible, I had exerted myself to the point of cardiac arrest. Or at least it felt that way.

    I've had several sessions with a white girl at VIP named Hazel. She's got an edgy personality but she can be a fun fuck. On the top on the bottom doggy style, she's a good lay for a white girl anyways.

    That's all I can remember for now. Monger and enjoy.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  22. Belut Boy
    Member

    My Opinion

    SF and all the other brothers,
    I agree with all the aforementioned definitions.

    Simply put, "You forget you are with a provider".
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  23. Niceguy808
    Inactive

    Ginger Spyce

    She always gives me the GFE when I see her. Too bad she doesn't come to Hawaii as often as she used to.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  24. Belut_Boy
    Inactive

    My Opinion

    SF and all the other brothers,
    I agree with all the aforementioned definitions.

    Simply put, "You forget you are with a provider".
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  25. Belut Boy
    Member

    My Opinion

    SF and all the other brothers,
    I agree with all the aforementioned definitions.

    Simply put, "You forget you are with a provider".
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  26. Hinode
    Inactive

    Kelly from Nirvana(?) the one at ichiban now I think. Find my report about her for details.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  27. Brahmabull
    Inactive

    Let's be honest here

    Lets be honest here, most of what everyone is describing as their definition of a GFE, is not truly a Girlfriend Experience.

    Honestly, most GFs do not provide some or any of the services (consistantly, and in some cases at all) that we define as required of a provider who says she is GFE.

    Reality is GFE = naggy/bitchy, rushed, often expensive (in more ways then money). Real GFs have more rules then bargain providers.

    Most 80.00 15min sessions are exactly like what most men routinely experience with their real life GF or wife.

    What a GFE means in this hobby is what OUR FANTASY GFE would be like, not how we are actually treated by GFs in reality.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  28. Sam Joe
    Member

    GFE means you have the freedom and control as if she was your real girlfriend. When the sex is over before your paid time period, she will stay with you and accompany you for the time being.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  29. Modelsearch10
    Inactive

    Gfe

    Well SF and I had discussed this topic also through some PM's. GFE to me is unlike some peoples experience things that a GF would do. I have had GF's whom I wore condoms with when I was younger and the thought of pregnancy or VD's was always on my mind, that being said I have never had a GF not kiss me or Not give my a BJ with a damn condom on or not allowed me to go down on them if I wanted. Now thats a minimimum BBBJ, french kissing and DATY. Obviously the feeling of not being rushed and the pampering that comes with some providers before and after the deed is done always makes the experience better. This too me is icing on the cake (no pun intended)
    Here is my list of GFE's here in Hawaii... its a VERY short list unfortunatly. Nikki/Angelina and Nikki Hott from VG and Ginger Spice. Notice NO LOCAL PROVIDERS on the list. GFE experiences other places its a VERY much longer list... includes Dallas, Houston, Shreveport, Korea, LA, and a few other foreign countries. Dallas of course being the most GFE experiences as its a very heavily competitive market and if girls DONT do the basic GFE then they dont get the buisiness to stay doing the job.
    I cant say I dont like my asians here in Hawaii but for the cost and the experience Id still rather go other places. And there are AMPS everywhere. It seems that the satisfaction level that providers give in other locations that is NORMAL for their area is considered way ABOVE average for here. I REALLY wish I could talk some of the girls I have been with to come here and provide the level they are use to giving at there locations here and for the same price I guarantee that all the mongers would see what it is I mean and not stand for the crap that goes on here.
    I wish a local provider would step up and provide that level of service then maybe others would follow once they see the level of buisiness that they could have. Hmmm any suggestions?
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  30. Hinode
    Inactive

    Kelly from Nirvana(?) the one at ichiban now I think. Find my report about her for details.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply

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