1. LoveAsia
    Inactive

    H Joe,

    I won't be taking her up on the full time option but might give a run at the one time event. She does have a full time job teaching and she and I have video called a few times over the past year while she was at work.

    Overall, I agree with your assessment. Thanks for your input.

    LA.

    Originally Posted by SE Asia Joe
    I'd say first thing first is for you to tryand determine if she indeed has " a good job". For there's a lot of "Kept women" in Chian and especially in Shenzhen who, for whatever reason, tells everybody that she's financially self-reliant because she's got a good job. Yeah right!

    Gals with "good jobs" and who ARE financially self reliant are NOT all of a sudden going to change and offer herself for RMB2K a pop; what, just because she's broken off with her BF? More likely its her sugar daddy recently dumping her.

    As far as the actual RMB amount to YOU, Well, I really don't know your own financial situation. For all I know, such amounts be trifling amounts OR all that you got! LOL! So on the absolute amount of money, I'd have to let you decide yourself. But I would advise you to proceed with caution, and in any case take her "introductory offer" first before committing yourself to anything more. And the situation as it is. I'd say you'd have a lot of room to negotiate a lower price. And even a free honest to goodness trial ride!

    And please do remember, Late 30's women in China are actually worth not much at all!

    SEAJ
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  2. Sammon
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by LoveAsia
    It has been a long time since I posted any report though I have been a member for a long time. Not much time for mongering in Shenzhen and my activities have been mostly in HK and Thailand.

    One of my QQ friends recently broke up with her bf. She is in the late 30's, educated, has a good job and is by anyone's estimation a fine looking woman. She asked if I needed a lover. Her offer was 10, 000RMB / month for whenever I want to get together o 2000RMB for a single night.

    I know this is a mongering forum but thought my old buddies SE Joe, OldAsiaHand or other oldtimers would give me their perspectie. I have been in China for a long time and have not found an educated, financially secure woman ask for this kind of relationsip. What's your take on it?

    LA
    I had supported a young 18 year old girl who I met in a Karaoke bar. She was from hubei considered very pretty and could sing very well. I guess that was the qualification for her to get a high end Karaoke bar job.

    She wanted out and her requirement was 4000 RMB per month. She found a studio apartment for 1200 RMB per month in Shenzhen. Very friendly girl. Break up was bad for her. Although she did know that I mongered all over.

    Maybe she went out with other guys when I was not around.

    For a late 30' s woman there is no demand in China when young pretty women are everywhere. Do not understand why she is asking for money if gainfully employed. Finding a sponsor at her age will be very hard for her. 10, 000 RMB goes a long way in China for a single girl. All poor Chinese girls know how to manage within 3-4000 RMB per month. Another GF of mine showed me all the cheap places to get massages, food, groceries, clothes etc.

    Nobody in shenzhen pays 2000 LT per night. If very beautifull may go up to 800 RMB. Many who stay LT are not really into sex like their Phi or thai counterparts. You will be lucky if you get a shot in the morning.

    If somebody wants to sponsor a girl there are many willing girls in shenzhen.
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  3. SE_Asia_Joe
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by LoveAsia
    H Joe,

    I won't be taking her up on the full time option but might give a run at the one time event. She does have a full time job teaching and she and I have video called a few times over the past year while she was at work.

    Overall, I agree with your assessment. Thanks for your input.

    LA.
    I hope that you realize that teachers in China do NOT make good money at all. More like a VERY few hundred RMB's in rural areas and I'd say maximum of 2K in Shenzhen.

    Good that you're NOT going to commit yourself and that you will be trying her out for a trial run. But I got to gree with Sammon, RMB 2K for a China Gal? Especially an old gal like her? And let me tell ya, late 30's is ANCIENT as far as what's out there. I think most here would even agree that she should be glad anybody would want to do her, never mind having to pay for the privilege; Sorry to be a bit unkind, but I want you to really smell the coffee.

    SEAJ
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  4. Fast_Eddie_48
    Inactive

    Shenzhen actions

    I spend the last 2 days in shenzhen Seibu is dead many constuction going on, I have a few pimp number one in huang gang and a few in sha tsui area they set me up with girl that work at KTV at night that extra money during day time before 7 pm, I have run run from guangxi last night she work in danshui sauna for a yr great BBBJ a solid 7 with big boob 150 rmb she charge 700 rmb for all night at KTV, my pimp get 50 rmb for using his studio apartment at sha tsui much better than the seibu place, tonight I go there again and got xia mei from chansha been in shenzhen for 2 yr 22 yr old speak great cantonese again great service and BBBJ even a body slide and BJ in the shower, me and my pimp even go to all the hair salon and look for girl doing their make up getting ready for KTV, again there are many action in shenzhen if you have good contact, bbs and sauna is going away fast because of crack down most action is now in KTV.

    Fast Eddie 48
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  5. Sniffer
    Inactive

    Jin Hairun on Mei Hui Road

    After reading all the nice report on this place, I went there last night just to find out that it is closed. There was a hand written sign in the elevator which said that the place has closed down and they are looking for someone to take over. What a disappointment!

    I ended up going to a place directly across from the Futian Port of Entry, which offered a "Japanese Oil Massage" for RMB 128 + a standard tips of RMB 100. Got a very nice girl from Hubei who has nice boobs and allowed a lot of touching. But she did say that LE has been very active in Shenzhen lately. So she only allowed me to slip my hands under her bras to touch and massage her, but could not sit close to me or undo her bra.
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  6. Pussycheck
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by Sammon
    I had supported a young 18 year old girl who I met in a Karaoke bar. She was from hubei considered very pretty and could sing very well. I guess that was the qualification for her to get a high end Karaoke bar job.

    She wanted out and her requirement was 4000 RMB per month. She found a studio apartment for 1200 RMB per month in Shenzhen. Very friendly girl. Break up was bad for her. Although she did know that I mongered all over.

    Maybe she went out with other guys when I was not around.

    For a late 30' s woman there is no demand in China when young pretty women are everywhere. Do not understand why she is asking for money if gainfully employed. Finding a sponsor at her age will be very hard for her. 10, 000 RMB goes a long way in China for a single girl. All poor Chinese girls know how to manage within 3-4000 RMB per month. Another GF of mine showed me all the cheap places to get massages, food, groceries, clothes etc.

    Nobody in shenzhen pays 2000 LT per night. If very beautifull may go up to 800 RMB. Many who stay LT are not really into sex like their Phi or thai counterparts. You will be lucky if you get a shot in the morning.

    If somebody wants to sponsor a girl there are many willing girls in shenzhen.
    Which places in Shenzhen do you suggest to meet good looking Chinese girls with a decent job who are interested in a sponsor? Are there any places in the evening like nightclubs, discos where you can meet such Chinese girls?
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  7. Sammon
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by Pussycheck
    Which places in Shenzhen do you suggest to meet good looking Chinese girls with a decent job who are interested in a sponsor? Are there any places in the evening like nightclubs, discos where you can meet such Chinese girls?
    I was a frquent visitor to Shenzhen at that time. You need to have a local guy in order to get these girls. I got this girl in a local Karaoke bar with the help of a mamasan known to my friend who I did business with. The charge was 600 RMB for me to take her apart from the expenses and sitting charge. Somehow we clicked and the girl could speak little english and could write english very well. I told her I will pay 600 RMB for the next day as well and we had a good time in addition to going Splendid China Park. Her mamasan kept on calling to find out where she was. She lied and said she is not feeling well. Next day she kept on telling me how she did not like the job and her parents are poor etc. She only proposed me to sponsor her and said she can manage very well by finding low cost apartment and can cook etc. For me it sounded good. We were together for more than 3 years and travelled all over China. Could not take her out of the country.

    So in order to find a girl to sponsor you need to know local people and go to local places. Even some massage girls are willing to be sponsored but you need to know Mandarin. Mostly Hong Kong and taiwanese people sponsor the girls.

    At the same time there are scammers as well trying to wipe out your money. So Beware!
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  8. WC_Monger
    Inactive

    Terrace Bar

    Originally Posted by Sky Ryder
    WC, I am wondering when the last time you were in the Terrace. I live in the area, and haven't seen any Fils WG's in the bar in almost 2 years. I know that on occasion some gals will come to watch the band, but the days of making a HK visa run and "working" a little in the process ended a long time ago, sadly.

    I am sure there is the occasional exception, but unless something's changed in the last couple of weeks, your information is contrary to my experience. I suspect this is part of getting Shenzhen "ready" for the University games this summer. It was similar to what happened during the Olympics. I also suspect it is the "new" mayor still flexing his muscles.
    Sky, I was at terrace about November. Thurs night was about 8 to 10 Philippino girls. Wed night none.
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  9. Beijing_Xiber
    Inactive

    HE Oil Massage in SZ

    I was in the Shanshui Trends Hotel on Huafa Lu (not the other STH in Louhu area) two weeks ago. The Korean Spa on the third floor offers HE oil massage at an all in price of RMB300 (200 for oil massage + 100 tip). Surprisingly good massage with an exquisite HE technique. Ask for massage girl 33. She even allowed roaming hands exploration with wet digits results, but she will ask for additional tips above 100 for the additional hand roaming service. They spa has a before 7 pm price as low as about Rmb 68 for Chinese non-oil massage, but not sure if Rmb100 add on to that special will get the HE since I could not get to the spa that early. Let me know if any of you do get that deal.

    All in all a good experience. Place was clean. People were nice. Girl was friendly and accomplished at her craft.

    The hotel can be found on ctrip or elong.

    Keep safe out there.

    BJXB
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  10. Osuul
    Inactive

    Originally Posted by Sammon
    10, 000 RMB goes a long way in China for a single girl. All poor Chinese girls know how to manage within 3-4000 RMB per month.
    Mhhhh, my employees (office girls) , get 1600 RMB per month. Engineers get 4000. 9000.

    That is in shanghai. So I would say poor girls will know how to manage with a lot less then 3 to 4000.

    I have supervisors getting less then 10. 000.

    LOL, might be that we are paying too low, thats why so many leave our company.
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  11. OldAsiaHand
    Inactive

    Are you crazy?

    Originally Posted by LoveAsia
    It has been a long time since I posted any report though I have been a member for a long time. Not much time for mongering in Shenzhen and my activities have been mostly in HK and Thailand.

    One of my QQ friends recently broke up with her bf. She is in the late 30's, educated, has a good job and is by anyone's estimation a fine looking woman. She asked if I needed a lover. Her offer was 10, 000RMB / month for whenever I want to get together o 2000RMB for a single night.

    I know this is a mongering forum but thought my old buddies SE Joe, OldAsiaHand or other oldtimers would give me their perspectie. I have been in China for a long time and have not found an educated, financially secure woman ask for this kind of relationsip. What's your take on it?

    LA
    LA,

    IMHO, you do not need to pay anything to 30+ girls in China. There are so many freebies available in that age group you can have one every night for nothing if you spend some time at it. Chinese girls over 30 are desperate. There is not one local Chinese guy I know that would have even an inkling of interest in them unless they have no money and the girl is super rich.

    Start chatting in the English chatrooms, Yahoo, MSN and you will find more than you can handle for free. Many are educated, employed and good looking.

    Just my POV.

    OAH
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  12. LoveAsia
    Inactive

    OAH,

    Just to set the record straight, I was not considering being her sugar daddy. It was just so odd given her age that she requested this that I wanted to see if any old timers ran across a lady this age here with similar unrealistic expectations.

    LA.

    Originally Posted by OldAsiaHand
    LA,

    IMHO, you do not need to pay anything to 30+ girls in China. There are so many freebies available in that age group you can have one every night for nothing if you spend some time at it. Chinese girls over 30 are desperate. There is not one local Chinese guy I know that would have even an inkling of interest in them unless they have no money and the girl is super rich.

    Start chatting in the English chatrooms, Yahoo, MSN and you will find more than you can handle for free. Many are educated, employed and good looking.

    Just my POV.

    OAH
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  13. OldAsiaHand
    Inactive

    Relieved!

    Originally Posted by LoveAsia
    OAH,

    Just to set the record straight, I was not considering being her sugar daddy. It was just so odd given her age that she requested this that I wanted to see if any old timers ran across a lady this age here with similar unrealistic expectations.

    LA.
    LA,

    I am glad to hear that you have not lost your mind after all this time in China, my friend.

    Happy Hunting!

    OAH
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  14. LoveAsia
    Inactive

    I promise you I am still quite sane. .

    I think these older women looking for this kind of arrangement are quite deluded or they have previously found BSD in Shenzhen and believe there are still many BSD available.

    Be well, old friend.

    Originally Posted by OldAsiaHand
    LA,

    I am glad to hear that you have not lost your mind after all this time in China, my friend.

    Happy Hunting!

    OAH
    Posted 3 years ago | #Reply
  15. szexpat
    Member

    @OldAsiaHand

    I am new to the forum here, an expat currently working and living in Shenzhen. Can you recommend any specific chatrooms to find a 30+ willing and available (married is preferred, then they dont expect anything but sex, which is what I want)?

    I am quite curious about this, would be great if you could give a bit of advice on it

    cheers

    Posted 2 years ago | #Reply
  16. lonelytraveler93
    Member

    Hello Gents, I have been going to Shanghai a lot and always love the Bodi Hotel in PuDong where RMB800 gets your 2 shots in 90 mins with the Nuru Massage. It has now gone up to RMB880 by the way. And you can get a 2nd for threesome by adding RMB500.

    Anyways, main reason I am here is that I am totally new to Shenzhen and on Monday I am going to be staying at Sandborg Hotel in Longgang District. China, Guangdong, Shenzhen, Longgang, Shenhui Road.

    I hope you guys would be able to point me to similar type of service as Bodi or perhaps hook me up with someone who would stay the night for around RMB800 range from my understanding that is the standard.

    Thanks in advance.

    Posted 2 years ago | #Reply
  17. spinfusion1
    Member

    Hey guys,

    I already have a Chinese girlfriend. We live together, so I can\'t bring chicks home. I\'ve been chronically ill for a while, and just now getting back to work. So I just added another girl, a \"mistress\" I guess. Here\'s my report. Would appreciate knowing more about love hotel locations, or cheap places to bed down with a girl for a short time, as I still don\'t have the cash for a second apartment yet.

    --

    met Cleavette at subway. I\'ll detail the approach, since it may be of interest. I saw her, she was stacked, I was intrigued, while in the subway. So I followed her up and out when she got off, to make sure we had a chance to chat in a non-threatening location. At the exit to the street I moved quickly and tapped her elbow, little half step back, smile, said I thought she was attractive and wanted to talk to her. Turned out she speaks a little English. I\'d done this with multiple girls and gotten Chinese only, but this one spoke English so I never followed up on the others.

    I got her contact info and then was busy for a while, got back to her and set up a meet.

    First date: Met up in Houhai, Starbucks, she chilled while I worked for a while, then went off to play at an arcade while I finished up, then we grabbed food, went to karaoke together. Hug when we first met, no physical escalation till everything comfortable in karaoke. Focused on eating and singing for a while, with increasing touch. She\'s shy about singing, so after belting out a couple I just transition to making out with her. Gets quite hot and heavy. I don\'t go for full sex there because I\'m not sure that\'s safe in China - thoughts? Door had a little window in it, but we coulda moved to the part of the room out of view.

    Anyway, first date I paid for everything, no big deal.

    Second date: occurred two weeks later. We went downtown together to houhai, ate sushi, rmb 100 bill. lots of conversational gaps, but powered thru it all, pretty much effortless.

    i had no plan for the bang, but just trusted and rolled with it.

    I mentioned zhou dian shi (love hotel), she guided me to 7 day\'s inn in Bao An, just off the subway entrance. It was a regular hotel, but reasonably cheap. lotsa miscommunication throughout, wound up 257 RMB for the room. worth the notch for me though. no other logistical way to pull it off. she didn’t want to take me back to her place.

    some conversation afterwards. deflected the girlfriend question. glad i didn’t lie again. lied previously about living alone.

    explained my health issue successfully this time, she didn’t get before.

    next time need to bring electronic chinese dictionary with me.

    loved the banging. she hadn’t had sex in a year, super horny. could fuck her deep and hard the whole time. very orgasmic.

    awesomely pleasurable experience. better bang than my current girlfriend. It\'s four years into the LTR. really needed that. love having two concubines. fucking love it.

    amazingly perky and large tits, looked fake the way they had just zero sag. and she’s 27. remarkable. one boyfriend for past 5 years, haven’t had sex for 1 year, lost all feeling for each other after worked in different cities for a year. total drive to make out, her biology/emotions pushing her to seek a new man.

    clearly very inexperienced girl. could tell from the bang. that’s a relief. didn’t want a mega slut, really, although I would’ve accepted it.

    she’s a good fit for me, a real bargain on many levels. kinda hafta go older chicks for now since I need english and financial independence for now.

    And she’s got a frame built for fucking. I can straight tear this girl up and she doesn’t break. My other girl’s a bit too petite for that. Welcome change.

    reasonable cost per notch. i prefer to pay on dates because that’s how I am. I’d rather date a girl worth paying for than play the “i’m not paying” game, which just rubs me wrong. with hotel, this date was 350 RMB. The previous date was probably 250-300 RMB. Both times the main cost was a place to make out / fuck. So logistics were the main reason for high cost per notch – couldn’t bring her home, she didn’t want to go to her place.

    Total cost per notch – $100 USD; without logistics problem – $31 USD. 2 dates total. Little time spent long distance chatting on qq. Not horrible, but not super efficient either.

    Anyway hit me with your wisdom, I could use some logistics advice!

    Posted 2 years ago | #Reply
  18. metallifan
    Member

    hi guys,

    i have used the info on this site for about a year. thanks to all for your contributions and valuable knowledge!

    i was wondering if anyone knows anything about this chinese website?
    http://www.5ccl.info

    i have signed up but you have to get 3 other people to sign up before you get access. im just wondering if its worth the hassle?

    anyway, if nobody knows, and you want me to find out, use this link to to sign up and i will get access and post an update here. :P

    http://www.5ccl.info/ons/?67354-1.html

    cheers

    Posted 2 years ago | #Reply
  19. No007spyV
    Member

    Hello Everyone:
    Can you please advise for short on time where to stay and where to pick up girls in Shenzhen.
    Thank you

    Posted 1 year ago | #Reply
  20. samlee
    Blocked

    Hi No007spyV:
    you can pick girls in some sauna clubs in Shenzhen,or you can get the website:http://classifieds.chinadaily.com/?view=ads&catid=9&cityid=2&lang=en
    and choose some outcall service,enjoy it!

    Posted 1 year ago | #Reply
  21. berlad
    Member

    hi all
    I am looking for nuru massage in shenzhen any help??

    Posted 1 year ago | #Reply
  22. masslin
    Member

    berlad:
    Some saunas in Shenzhen have nuru massage in Shenzhen ,you \'d better check it out.

    Posted 1 year ago | #Reply
  23. masslin
    Member

    After the Dongguan crackdown on prostitution, Shenzhen LE took severe measures against prostitution recently. Going to saunas or incall massage parlors are not safe. Outcall service/Escort service will be better than incall service. You can find many great girls on Shenzhen Escort Find, check their reviews then decide to choose which girl.

    Posted 8 months ago | #Reply
  24. thomascaseyinchina
    Member

    I\\\'m gonna be in Beijing and Shanghai at the end of April and beginning of May. Sadly I don\\\'t speak any Chinese! I\\\'d love to try out one of the barber shops or massage parlors where they give you a bit \\\"extra\\\". A little concerned over the language barrier and getting taken for a ride (not in the good way). :) Any fellow CityXGuide members out there that can recommend a place where they can cater to english speaking AND give a fair price?

    Or are there any fellow members out there willing to have a night out with me? Not too crazy a night :)

    Thanks

    Posted 8 months ago | #Reply
  25. Holomakke
    Blocked

    You can find complete Shenzen street prostitution, massage and brothel map from this site with street addresses:
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/China

    There is also links to other cities in China!

    Posted 7 months ago | #Reply
  26. Gaslight
    Member

    Cracking down on who? Foreigners?

    Anyway, these stories are great. I\'m new to this, but would like to know how the scene has evolved. How do you do it with this new policy? Is it allowed?

    And SZ vs GZ vs other cities - which would you recommend and why?

    Posted 6 months ago | #Reply
  27. mikethemongerman
    Blocked

    Here is some important things that you should need if you are going to fuck prostitutes in China or other Asian countries.

    Asia prostitution and erotic massage guide:
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Asia

    Global list of all the red light districts (Locations of Chinese Red light districts also in the list)
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/List_of_red-light_districts

    Countries with most Prostitutes (China ranks number 6!)
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/The_Countries_With_the_Most_Prostitutes

    Common scams in prostitution in China and other countries:
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Common_scams

    Prostitute types all around the world:
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Prostitute_types

    Chinese Mandarin Sex Phrasebook:
    http://www.wikisexguide.com/wiki/Mandarin_Sex_Phrasebook

    Posted 5 months ago | #Reply
  28. masslin
    Member

    Finding Girls in Shenzhen? Try http://shenzhen.escortfind.com/escort-girls/ and you will get a large number of choices. Happy Mongering in Shenzhen.

    Posted 5 months ago | #Reply

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