I already have a Chinese girlfriend. We live together, so I can\'t bring chicks home. I\'ve been chronically ill for a while, and just now getting back to work. So I just added another girl, a \"mistress\" I guess. Here\'s my report. Would appreciate knowing more about love hotel locations, or cheap places to bed down with a girl for a short time, as I still don\'t have the cash for a second apartment yet.
met Cleavette at subway. I\'ll detail the approach, since it may be of interest. I saw her, she was stacked, I was intrigued, while in the subway. So I followed her up and out when she got off, to make sure we had a chance to chat in a non-threatening location. At the exit to the street I moved quickly and tapped her elbow, little half step back, smile, said I thought she was attractive and wanted to talk to her. Turned out she speaks a little English. I\'d done this with multiple girls and gotten Chinese only, but this one spoke English so I never followed up on the others.
I got her contact info and then was busy for a while, got back to her and set up a meet.
First date: Met up in Houhai, Starbucks, she chilled while I worked for a while, then went off to play at an arcade while I finished up, then we grabbed food, went to karaoke together. Hug when we first met, no physical escalation till everything comfortable in karaoke. Focused on eating and singing for a while, with increasing touch. She\'s shy about singing, so after belting out a couple I just transition to making out with her. Gets quite hot and heavy. I don\'t go for full sex there because I\'m not sure that\'s safe in China - thoughts? Door had a little window in it, but we coulda moved to the part of the room out of view.
Anyway, first date I paid for everything, no big deal.
Second date: occurred two weeks later. We went downtown together to houhai, ate sushi, rmb 100 bill. lots of conversational gaps, but powered thru it all, pretty much effortless.
i had no plan for the bang, but just trusted and rolled with it.
I mentioned zhou dian shi (love hotel), she guided me to 7 day\'s inn in Bao An, just off the subway entrance. It was a regular hotel, but reasonably cheap. lotsa miscommunication throughout, wound up 257 RMB for the room. worth the notch for me though. no other logistical way to pull it off. she didn’t want to take me back to her place.
some conversation afterwards. deflected the girlfriend question. glad i didn’t lie again. lied previously about living alone.
explained my health issue successfully this time, she didn’t get before.
next time need to bring electronic chinese dictionary with me.
loved the banging. she hadn’t had sex in a year, super horny. could fuck her deep and hard the whole time. very orgasmic.
awesomely pleasurable experience. better bang than my current girlfriend. It\'s four years into the LTR. really needed that. love having two concubines. fucking love it.
amazingly perky and large tits, looked fake the way they had just zero sag. and she’s 27. remarkable. one boyfriend for past 5 years, haven’t had sex for 1 year, lost all feeling for each other after worked in different cities for a year. total drive to make out, her biology/emotions pushing her to seek a new man.
clearly very inexperienced girl. could tell from the bang. that’s a relief. didn’t want a mega slut, really, although I would’ve accepted it.
she’s a good fit for me, a real bargain on many levels. kinda hafta go older chicks for now since I need english and financial independence for now.
And she’s got a frame built for fucking. I can straight tear this girl up and she doesn’t break. My other girl’s a bit too petite for that. Welcome change.
reasonable cost per notch. i prefer to pay on dates because that’s how I am. I’d rather date a girl worth paying for than play the “i’m not paying” game, which just rubs me wrong. with hotel, this date was 350 RMB. The previous date was probably 250-300 RMB. Both times the main cost was a place to make out / fuck. So logistics were the main reason for high cost per notch – couldn’t bring her home, she didn’t want to go to her place.
Total cost per notch – $100 USD; without logistics problem – $31 USD. 2 dates total. Little time spent long distance chatting on qq. Not horrible, but not super efficient either.
Anyway hit me with your wisdom, I could use some logistics advice!