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  1. Sky_Ryder
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    Originally Posted by X Man
    Actually, this is good information, but it is also unnecessarily narrow.

    It assumes the gal is out to earn money. X

    "X"

    I guess in a sense you are correct in that every lady will have their own personal reasons, some of which may overlap. It wasn't my intention to detail the reason for every lady, not insinuate that I had all the answers. I guess it was done a little TIC, because to be honest, I felt the overriding reason should be self-evident.
    Heck, I have spent a lot to time just trying to figure out "feminine motovation" on a simple level....with VERY limited success,I might add. This is WAY above my skill level! :-D
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  2. GregLondon
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    different reasons

    Originally Posted by Amjeck
    For those of you who do internet dating, what do you do when the girl says she wants to bring her friend along?

    Do you drop her?

    Do you tell her "ok" and try to work the friend also?

    What is the reason for this childish tactic these girls play? I don't get it.
    As others have mentioned there are a number of different reasons.
    The most common would be that its a relatively young or inexperienced girl who has not met any or at least many foreign guys before. often these girls are not intending to have sex and the partner is intended as a chaperone to insure that. Meeting a foreigner is considered something of a treat especially of it involves pizza or jollybees so she may also be keen to share the experience with a friend.

    As others have said if it is a cute girl about her age it maybe acceptable, if it is mum or aunty it will kill the atmosphere.

    Some girls like to bring along gay/ladyboy friends. in my experience this is to be avoided. Tghe gay/LB will more often than not be attempting to financially exploit the situation by eg trying to negotiate a large taxi fee to get lost. There may also be a scam involved eg setting you up with an underage girl and threatening to call the police if you dont pay him off. The gay /LB may or may not have been involved in your original dialogue for example many gays/LBs chat/email on behalf of girls or substitute a girl if you say you dont like LBs etc. One way or another they are ALWAYS trouble at least in my experience.

    The third more promising scenario is a more experienced girl who is trying to maximise revenue by bringing along a friend for a threesome.

    I usually tryto clarify the matter by asking whether the friend (a) 100% real girl with no extra bits (b) her age and slimness etc and (c) whether she is also open minded about being fucked.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  3. Cheapy
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    Dia - Bj

    Had been chatting with a 22 yr. Old in preparation for "dates" in Manila.

    Nice profile, typical 110 Ibs., nice cleavage etc. Met her at hotel and she

    Had grown to 150 Ibs.! Ugh. The front desk girls even "raised an eyebrow". They had seen me with considerably better quality.

    I know, I should have walked away, but being the nice guy that I am and

    Under the influence of Vitamin V, we went upstairs. She didn't want to get

    Undressed so I suggested she leave. But she wanted to stay? Oooook, what now?

    I asked, "What did she want to do? " She wanted me to get undressed.

    She wanted to look at me? Ah-ha!

    In short, the best blow job I have had in 20 years. And she swallowed every drop!

    Gave her 500p for transportation and went to LA Cafe for a couple of beers

    And laughs. In a very relaxed state of mind.

    Sometimes just have to go with the flow.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  4. FreebieFan
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    Originally Posted by GregLondon
    As others have mentioned there are a number of different reasons.

    The most common would be that its a relatively young or inexperienced girl who has not met any or at least many foreign guys before. Often these girls are not intending to have sex and the partner is intended as a chaperone to insure that. Meeting a foreigner is considered something of a treat especially of it involves pizza or jollybees so she may also be keen to share the experience with a friend.

    As others have said if it is a cute girl about her age it maybe acceptable, if it is mum or aunty it will kill the atmosphere.

    Some girls like to bring along gay/ladyboy friends. In my experience this is to be avoided. Tghe gay/LB will more often than not be attempting to financially exploit the situation by eg trying to negotiate a large taxi fee to get lost. There may also be a scam involved eg setting you up with an underage girl and threatening to call the police if you don't pay him off. The gay /LB may or may not have been involved in your original dialogue for example many gays/LBs chat/email on behalf of girls or substitute a girl if you say you don't like LBs etc. One way or another they are ALWAYS trouble at least in my experience.

    The third more promising scenario is a more experienced girl who is trying to maximise revenue by bringing along a friend for a threesome.

    I usually tryto clarify the matter by asking whether the friend (a) 100% real girl with no extra bits (b) her age and slimness etc and (c) whether she is also open minded about being fucked.
    We've all been down this road many times. If girl who you meet looks sweet and innocent (ripe for the picking) politely give the friend some money for Jollibee and tell her you will take care of the girl. Then proceed to walk off. The girl who came to meet will often be confused and will invariably walk to you and join you. Problem solved.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  5. X_Man
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    Thanks for the extra info. Points taken.

    I may have read too much into your point about "earn".

    I assumed you were equating "earn" with prostitution, but after reading your message I think you were suggesting "opportunities".

    All of us are looking for opportunities one way or another...no problem with that. :-) X

    Originally Posted by Sky Ryder
    "X"

    I guess in a sense you are correct in that every lady will have their own personal reasons, some of which may overlap. It wasn't my intention to detail the reason for every lady, not insinuate that I had all the answers. I guess it was done a little TIC, because to be honest, I felt the overriding reason should be self-evident.
    Heck, I have spent a lot to time just trying to figure out "feminine motovation" on a simple level....with VERY limited success,I might add. This is WAY above my skill level! :-D
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  6. Lustforthrust
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    Looks like all the fatties got together and created this one

    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  7. Starchild2012
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    Originally Posted by Lustforthrust
    Man where do you get these sites, i love fatties.... thanks for the link
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  8. David_33
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    Looks like a Jollibee´s fan club.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  9. Sammon
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    Originally Posted by Amjeck
    For those of you who do internet dating, what do you do when the girl says she wants to bring her friend along?

    Do you drop her?

    Do you tell her "ok" and try to work the friend also?

    What is the reason for this childish tactic these girls play? I don't get it.
    Unlike their western counterparts who are ready to go alone to the bar to hook up, asian regular girls are not emotionally secure. They feel more safer if they have a friend or family to meet a guy whether it is a Philippino or foreigner. I do not think they are afraid of being raped especially in philippines.
    irrespective of how naive they come across they know their rights and will assert themselves, even a farmgirl.
    I would avoid any girl who wants a friend to tag along. How can you have a conversation one to one if some other person is in the way? Even if your interest is solely to get into her pants one to one is better. Always remember they need sex also. If she has somebody with her the scenario will be different.
    1. Cannot talk openly.
    2. Cannot even touch her to see her reaction. Even if she is willing she will worry what her friend thinks.
    3. Even if she is willing to go with you her friend may put some sense into her telling her not to go. This happens quite often in bars here with a group of girls.
    I always tell the girl I feel funny meeting her with a friend because we cannot discuss openly. Usually it works. If she is really hesitant better to meet at a public place for lunch and see what happens. More often than not she will text you before you get to the room if she does not go with to start with.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  10. Pimpster
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    After months of research on DIA

    I've set up numerous fake accounts on dia to see what the true nature of the women on DIA is like. After e-mailing hundreds of women with generic type of e-mails, I've concluded that 1/3 of all the women in dia will have sex for money if you don't make them sound like hookers. If you make it clear that you are only looking for loving friendship with benefits type of deal 1/3 of these women will take money knowing its just sex for money. Out of the 1/3 half will ask you for huge amounts of money I've had some ask for 1k u.s. a week to 1250 u.s. a month. Another 5 % will flirt with you and say no problem,but could you send over some money now because i have this due or that due. The majority of women on dia will ignore you when it sex for money deal, this does not mean they won't cheat you or try to scam you. I highly recommend that if you are looking for sex to set up two accounts and see which ones will have sex for money. These type of girls will be a 100% sure thing for sex on first date if you treat them right, since they are motivated by other things than love.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  11. Cuba_Tourist
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    How do you set up multiple accounts on DIA without getting blacklisted by them?
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  12. FreebieFan
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    Originally Posted by Lustforthrust
    Hmm theres another very similar site to this http://filipina4friends.com

    Always got girls with C or D cups on it. No idea if the phone numbers work.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  13. Pimpster
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    Originally Posted by Cuba Tourist
    How do you set up multiple accounts on DIA without getting blacklisted by them?
    You can do it multiple ways I assume that dia is looking for duplicate ip address when you set up your account, once you set up the account they no longer check are if you log onto dia from a single ip address even if you have multiple account. If you have a wireless connection you can leach off your neighbor wireless if its not password protected, you can go to internet cafe or public library to do it. I currently have 3 dia accounts at present and have been collecting phone number e-mail address and other vital info preparing for my next trip to PI. I for one am not looking for a wife or just someone to go to the mall with. My sole intention is great sex with super hot girl with gf sort of sex. In my experience the way to get really get sex is to find girls are hot looking that are morally questionable will have sex for money, but she not a pro. You play the i love you, i want you to be my gf and i want you to come visit me in the u.s. and help me run my business. Many filipina are quite naive and will buy that story hook line and sinker, at which point they think they just won the lottery and will do whatever it takes to make you happy, even if this means fucking your brains out. When i get to PI I want the girl to be into me and just fuck the living shit out of me, even though I think in 90% of the cases the wild action is money driven or a better life. If you play your cards right you will be fucked the moment you get off the plane and fucked all night long all it will cost is a decent dinner and some star bucks.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  14. FreebieFan
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    Originally Posted by Pimpster
    . You play the I love you, I want you to be my gf and I want you to come visit me in the USA and help me run my business. Many filipina are quite naive and will buy that story hook line and sinker, at which point they think they just won the lottery and will do whatever it takes to make you happy, even if this means fucking your brains out. When I get to PI I want the girl to be into me and just fuck the living shit out of me, even though I think in 90% of the cases the wild action is money driven or a better life. If you play your cards right you will be fucked the moment you get off the plane and fucked all night long all it will cost is a decent dinner and some star bucks.
    Actually you don't need to lie to them. You don't need to sell them some bullshit story and you certainly don't need to prey on their naivete.

    We all enjoy great sex with some of these ladies on our trips, but I for one have a great deal of sucess by telling the ladies that I'm married so they know theres no chance of it going further, treating them well and with respect. I always get offers/requests for repeats.

    I suspect your method just makes them hard, cynical, and know that theyve been fucked on so many levels. It also probably turns some of them into scammers as a way of payback.

    Try and throw them a litttle more respect would be my advice whether you asked for it or not. I've only been mongering there for about 25 years now and have learned to recognise that treating these girls like we would like to be treated goes a long long way. Everyones got a choice.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  15. Mariposa11
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    Taking a link out of the chain

    I have read with some interest, and enjoyment some of the reports RE: DIA CB and other dating sites. Reading Manta Rays description of a typical date is the best primer I have read on cityxguide.com in years! I like his style!

    I have tried the dating site routine myself and as other have suggested is hit and miss and a huge time drain. And as other have stated, and has been my experience, you often times get a girl who was not as adverstised I. E. Used an old picture of herself or gain 30 pounds etc etc.

    I would suggest taking a link out of the chain, and just chat up Cam girls instead. My experience has been much better with this MO. Number one, you can see the " GOODS" before you meet first hand I. E. Flabby boobs see section scars whatever your fixation/fear is. So the physical side is a non issue before you actually meet this girl in person. Because you have all ready seen her in the buff.

    I know many would argue "CAM GIRLS ARE SHARKS"!. Or "I'm not paying all that money to see a girl strip on cam"

    This would be my rebuttal. Yes SOME cam girls are sharks. But so are many of the girls on DIA or CB. Here is my simple MO. While giving a CAM girl a "private" you get her YM (I have set up a dedicated YM account just for this purpose). Chat her up there on YM after the private and for the preceeding weeks before your up comming trip. Of course you mention that you would like to meet her.

    What a coincidence that you would meet her online just weeks before your up coming trip to the Philippines!

    Approximately 70% of the cam girls live in Taguig or Pasig or QC. So its not a far trip to your place in Makati.

    The other approx. 20% seem to live in Pampanga somewhere. A/C or Mabalacat Tarlac, Dau etc etc. Ten percent are scattered all over the Phils.

    As far as your investment in the cam girls goes. A "PRIVATE" will cost you anywhere from. 50 cents a minute to $1 USD a minute on SAC or ABC or ACM. IMHO take the cheaper rate. Which is often as good, as the more expensive. About 5 minutes will be all you will need to decide if this is a girl you are interested in. L I. E. Maybe the girl is cute and has a nice body but is a bit non responsive or not to smiley or engaging. Of course everyone will have there individual METRICS for what is important to them.

    In the end you have spent $2. 50 to $5 to watch a lovely gal. And NOW you know what you are getting on arrival. For some I understand this is expensive, but I would argue that so is your precious time on vacation, why waste it on hit and miss encounters! For you cheap charlies you can just get her YM in free chat. Sometimes.

    I would say on average I would spend $40-$80 on cam girls before an up comming trip. To whittle the list down to 3-4 solid Candidates. This IMHO is money well spent! And a very enjoyable talent hunt! Before your trip!

    My combined batting average is about 70% with BOTH CB/DIA and the Cam girl method. Although I have sent MANY more CB/DIA girls packing (goodbye) on initial meeting, and waste MUCH more time on DIA girls in idle chatter. Perhaps only to discover later after wining and dining that she has National Geograhphic boobs. That hang down to her waste. SORRY BUT I'll PASS ON THAT!

    I would say the down side of dating Cam girls is that some. Not all. Are quite skillfull and persuasive at separating you from your money. For various accidents. And other frequent disasters. This however, can play to your advantage.

    And Yes there is usually a sister or cousin riding "shotgun" on the 1st meeting with both DIA dates and CAM dates. But a clever guy can separate them. Of the 30% NON success ratio about 1/2 I am not interested upon meeting I. E. Smoker. And another 1/2 are not interested in me. Perhaps because I vaguely resemble the Elephant man.

    Also the Cam girls are usually slightly more prone to monetary suggestion/temptation than a DIA/CB girl. In other words they would be prone to be impressed that you are staying at the ABC in A/C. Or Mandarin in Makati, or be WOWED at the nice restaurant you took her to. (JOLLIBEE. Just kidding) Connecting the dots. Your Quality will almost ALWAYS be better taking the cam route. AND. They are more likely to readlily "shag you rotten"

    INGAT

    Mariposa11

    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  16. David_33
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    I think that it is extremely bad form to lie outright to girls and lead them on to later dump them. But that´s just me. My opinion is probably a minority one.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  17. Eaglestar
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    Originally Posted by Pimpster
    You play the i love you, i want you to be my gf and i want you to come visit me in the u.s. and help me run my business. Many filipina are quite naive and will buy that story hook line and sinker, at which point they think they just won the lottery and will do whatever it takes to make you happy, even if this means fucking your brains out.
    Sorry Pimpster but what U describe above is, IMHO, just the wrong way to treat another human being. Period, paragraph, full stop.

    There are many girls out there willing to sleep with us without having to resort to lies, deceit and the ultimate heartbreak that will come with your modus operandi.

    My POV

    ES
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  18. GregLondon
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    Bad attitude

    Originally Posted by Pimpster
    .... You play the i love you, i want you to be my gf and i want you to come visit me in the u.s. and help me run my business. Many filipina are quite naive and will buy that story hook line and sinker, at which point they think they just won the lottery and will do whatever it takes to make you happy, even if this means fucking your brains out. ................. all night long all it will cost is a decent dinner and some star bucks.
    I very much agree with David and Eagle on this one. I'm afraid that many guys do have Pimpster's attitude , which is why I have some sympathy for the girls trying to make a few bucks from scam stories. one problem is that it is generally the sweet and rather naive girls that fall for this type of rouse. I'm hoping that Pimpster's main purpose is to get enthusiastic performance and that he still pays the girls the going rate, rather a than a cunning plan to cheat a 20 year old girl out of $20 for a nights work??
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  19. Yella_Man
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    Originally Posted by FreebieFan
    Actually you don't need to lie to them. You don't need to sell them some bullshit story and you certainly don't need to prey on their naivete.

    We all enjoy great sex with some of these ladies on our trips, but I for one have a great deal of sucess by telling the ladies that I'm married so they know theres no chance of it going further, treating them well and with respect. I always get offers/requests for repeats.
    True! No need to create elaborate stories so the girls will bed you. If you're a nice guy and they like you, you'll be in bed with them soon enough. I also let the girls know that I'm married. They weigh the options and usually sleep with me anyway knowing full well a serious relationship is out of the question. Success rate is hardly 100% using this approach, but I'm satified enough with the results I do get. It's also a safer way to do business because it allows me much more freedom to do my own thing when I re-visit some of the same islands without the fear of having a girls relatives or friends angrily pursuing me for breaking past promises.

    YM
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  20. Pimpster
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    I hear what you guys are saying

    Here the thing, as I stated, I go for girls that are hot and motivated by money. So are they going to lie to me of course they are. 66% of women in dia will not consider sex for money outright, that doesn't mean they don't have some sort of plan or have multiple guys lined up. Do you guys honestly think you are the only one she flirting with making plans with? Its like saying guys here are only flirting with a single lady. Realistically what are the chance of you getting laid on the first date or second date or third date? If there no perception that you are their man or bf etc... the answer is pretty obvious, yes you can get laid but the amount of time that you have to invest in courting the girls are pretty high. Filipina aren't that easy, regardless of what you may believe. The reality is if these same girls were in the u.s. none of us would get any action unless you are loaded. We all lie to some degree. I've stated I placed numerous ads up one of them was a friends with benefit deal, the number of girls who responded were well under 50%, with that being said everyone who states that they are scoring huge numbers are either misleading the girls in some way, because if you placed an add up with friends with benefits you aren't really going to get any action. Most of these ladies are looking for bf marriage away out of PI. They may fuck you hoping and thinking that you are their way out. So seriously unless someone looking for a wife, or tells the girl that its a fling and I'm having sex with lots of girls than you are lying. I elect not to lie to girls that I know that are looking for a husband, I elect to lie to those who are looking for money. I would argue that my lie is, better if there such a thing than giving many of these ladies who are seeking husbands and a better future false hopes. IMO if you your motivation is sex with many different girls, the chance of you getting any sex without putting lots of time and effort without playing you are my gf deal is pretty low. Unless you are paying for it, i think most of us are saying oh i m looking for good gf bla bla bla when we chat is an outright lie giving false hope. I of course am not here to judge anyone, because imo we are all in the same boat there very little difference once you are able to do an honest assessment.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  21. FreebieFan
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    Originally Posted by Pimpster
    Realistically what are the chance of you getting laid on the first date or second date or third date? If there no perception that you are their man or bf etc. The answer is pretty obvious, yes you can get laid but the amount of time that you have to invest in courting the girls are pretty high. Filipina aren't that easy, regardless of what you may believe.
    Filipinas like most Asians don't have the same moral hang up about sex that the West does. Yes the Church tries to influence but weve all met gals that will happily jump from a 3some to some important mass.

    Filipinas are easy if you know how to do it. The chance of getting laid on the first date is about 80%, and for those that insist on a second its probably 99%.

    On more than one ocassion, I've met a gal in the afternoon, who said she wouldn't put out on a first date. So dropped her off, met her again at night and she had perfectly logically created the idea in her mind that it was now the second date.

    These girls will sleep with you if they want to. Your job is creating the "want to ". And then the rest is easy.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  22. FreebieFan
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    Originally Posted by Mariposa11
    I have read with some interest, and enjoyment some of the reports RE: DIA CB and other dating sites. Reading Manta Rays description of a typical date is the best primer I have read on cityxguide.com in years! I like his style!

    I have tried the dating site routine myself and as other have suggested is hit and miss and a huge time drain. And as other have stated, and has been my experience, you often times get a girl who was not as adverstised I. E. Used an old picture of herself or gain 30 pounds etc etc.

    I would suggest taking a link out of the chain, and just chat up Cam girls instead. My experience has been much better with this MO. Number one, you can see the " GOODS" before you meet first hand I. E. Flabby boobs see section scars whatever your fixation/fear is. So the physical side is a non issue before you actually meet this girl in person. Because you have all ready seen her in the buff.

    I know many would argue "CAM GIRLS ARE SHARKS"!. Or "I'm not paying all that money to see a girl strip on cam"

    This would be my rebuttal. Yes SOME cam girls are sharks. But so are many of the girls on DIA or CB. Here is my simple MO. While giving a CAM girl a "private" you get her YM (I have set up a dedicated YM account just for this purpose). Chat her up there on YM after the private and for the preceeding weeks before your up comming trip. Of course you mention that you would like to meet her.

    What a coincidence that you would meet her online just weeks before your up coming trip to the Philippines!

    Approximately 70% of the cam girls live in Taguig or Pasig or QC. So its not a far trip to your place in Makati.

    The other approx. 20% seem to live in Pampanga somewhere. A/C or Mabalacat Tarlac, Dau etc etc. Ten percent are scattered all over the Phils.

    As far as your investment in the cam girls goes. A "PRIVATE" will cost you anywhere from. 50 cents a minute to $1 USD a minute on SAC or ABC or ACM. IMHO take the cheaper rate. Which is often as good, as the more expensive. About 5 minutes will be all you will need to decide if this is a girl you are interested in. L I. E. Maybe the girl is cute and has a nice body but is a bit non responsive or not to smiley or engaging. Of course everyone will have there individual METRICS for what is important to them.

    In the end you have spent $2. 50 to $5 to watch a lovely gal. And NOW you know what you are getting on arrival. For some I understand this is expensive, but I would argue that so is your precious time on vacation, why waste it on hit and miss encounters! For you cheap charlies you can just get her YM in free chat. Sometimes.

    I would say on average I would spend $40-$80 on cam girls before an up comming trip. To whittle the list down to 3-4 solid Candidates. This IMHO is money well spent! And a very enjoyable talent hunt! Before your trip!

    My combined batting average is about 70% with BOTH CB/DIA and the Cam girl method. Although I have sent MANY more CB/DIA girls packing (goodbye) on initial meeting, and waste MUCH more time on DIA girls in idle chatter. Perhaps only to discover later after wining and dining that she has National Geograhphic boobs. That hang down to her waste. SORRY BUT I'll PASS ON THAT!

    I would say the down side of dating Cam girls is that some. Not all. Are quite skillfull and persuasive at separating you from your money. For various accidents. And other frequent disasters. This however, can play to your advantage.

    And Yes there is usually a sister or cousin riding "shotgun" on the 1st meeting with both DIA dates and CAM dates. But a clever guy can separate them. Of the 30% NON success ratio about 1/2 I am not interested upon meeting I. E. Smoker. And another 1/2 are not interested in me. Perhaps because I vaguely resemble the Elephant man.

    Also the Cam girls are usually slightly more prone to monetary suggestion/temptation than a DIA/CB girl. In other words they would be prone to be impressed that you are staying at the ABC in A/C. Or Mandarin in Makati, or be WOWED at the nice restaurant you took her to. (JOLLIBEE. Just kidding) Connecting the dots. Your Quality will almost ALWAYS be better taking the cam route. AND. They are more likely to readlily "shag you rotten"

    INGAT

    Mariposa11

    Fully agree with you here. I've dated a few cam girls, some of whom I met thru DIA and Tagged. Often they would be on cam in YM whilst preparing for their cam show. Nice to see nearly naked girls and know what you are going to be getting.

    If the girl shows you a pic and shes in a bikini and theres a waterfall or dolphin or wooded glade scene behind chances are shes a cam girl.

    Theres a street just off C5 highway in Signal Village in Taguig where theres 3 or 4 houses where the cam girls work. Theres a mamasan assigned to make sure the girls don't flash their goodies for free but the mamasan is often the fat type who falls asleep.

    Girls start work (6am) early to catch the US guys who need to see some Filipina puss.

    But overall, yes dating cam girls can be fun and a fruitful way to see the goods before delivery.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  23. Polyorchid
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    Originally Posted by Eaglestar
    Sorry Pimpster but what U describe above is, IMHO, just the wrong way to treat another human being. Period, paragraph, full stop.

    There are many girls out there willing to sleep with us without having to resort to lies, deceit and the ultimate heartbreak that will come with your modus operandi.

    My POV

    ES
    Hear, hear. Let's not forget these girls are human with dreams, hopes, aspirations. To come and lay a total bullshit story on them, imo, is downright shitty.

    And, more than that, it's totally unnecessary. I always use the yardstick: would I want someone to be doing this to my sister, daughter, or loved one?

    To each his own, but I am in agreement with ES and David.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  24. GregLondon
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    I'm confused

    I don't quite understand what you are saying here Pimpster? The vast majority of girls (other than the scammers) on DIA etc put in their profile that they are looking for Mr Right/a long term relationship etc. For sure this is indeed the main aim of most of these girls. Some of these girls are "romantic" and believe that they should only date guys who at least claim that they are looking for a wife in some cases they will claim truthfully or not that they are a virgin and that they will give their virginity only when married or at least engaged.

    Other girls are what is called here "practical" yes marriage is the main aim but if this is off the menu then they are willing to have sex with an expectation of some financial payback. Most girls are not wiling to be explicit about this on their profiles as (1) this is an aspect of their behaviour which they dont want to demonstrate A to potential husbands and b to their friends, relatives and colleagues and c because the sites may ban them.

    As i understand it your policy is to spend alot of time with multiple profiles to identify these hot "practical" girls then to dupe them into going to bed with you with stories of potential marriage. Do you end up infact paying them something?

    My policy is to identify these hot "practical" girls tell them exactly what im looking for (nsa gfe) and then when they come round and have fun hand them a 500/1000B tip as they say good bye. No lieing or multiple accounts needed. Everyone gets what they want. Generally the girls have alot of fun and end up becoming friends' who will drop around invite their freinds around to be fucked as well etc etc. Works well for me.

    One caveate is that such a strategy is best employed in Manila/Cebu/AC. In more conservative places such as Davao where I am now you will almost certainly have more success if you at least leave open the possibility that you are interested in marriage.

    I would agree with Pimpster that although he seems to be in a minority amongst the frequent posters on this site, i would guess that a large majority of the guys who come here are "economical with the truth" in terms of giving the impression that they are indeed looking for Miss Right or at least open to the possibility, when infact that is often a 10,000 to 1 possibility at least in relation to the girl in question.


    Originally Posted by Pimpster
    Here the thing, as I stated, I go for girls that are hot and motivated by money. So are they going to lie to me of course they are. 66% of women in dia will not consider sex for money outright, that doesn't mean they don't have some sort of plan or have multiple guys lined up. Do you guys honestly think you are the only one she flirting with making plans with? Its like saying guys here are only flirting with a single lady. Realistically what are the chance of you getting laid on the first date or second date or third date? If there no perception that you are their man or bf etc... the answer is pretty obvious, yes you can get laid but the amount of time that you have to invest in courting the girls are pretty high. Filipina aren't that easy, regardless of what you may believe. The reality is if these same girls were in the u.s. none of us would get any action unless you are loaded. We all lie to some degree. I've stated I placed numerous ads up one of them was a friends with benefit deal, the number of girls who responded were well under 50%, with that being said everyone who states that they are scoring huge numbers are either misleading the girls in some way, because if you placed an add up with friends with benefits you aren't really going to get any action. Most of these ladies are looking for bf marriage away out of PI. They may fuck you hoping and thinking that you are their way out. So seriously unless someone looking for a wife, or tells the girl that its a fling and I'm having sex with lots of girls than you are lying. I elect not to lie to girls that I know that are looking for a husband, I elect to lie to those who are looking for money. I would argue that my lie is, better if there such a thing than giving many of these ladies who are seeking husbands and a better future false hopes. IMO if you your motivation is sex with many different girls, the chance of you getting any sex without putting lots of time and effort without playing you are my gf deal is pretty low. Unless you are paying for it, i think most of us are saying oh i m looking for good gf bla bla bla when we chat is an outright lie giving false hope. I of course am not here to judge anyone, because imo we are all in the same boat there very little difference once you are able to do an honest assessment.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  25. FreebieFan
    Inactive

    What could she be wanting

    Met a young lady on last trip, took her to Eurotel Pasay road ( no Victoria Court being available in said location ) and we did our thing.

    Havent heard from her since till today I get a message on Tagged

    " Hello how are you now... I miss you.... oh did I tell you, its my birthday soon".

    No guessing which was the more salient part of her message lol.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  26. GregLondon
    Inactive

    unusual offer

    Had a girl in Cebu contact me via Skype this afternoon. She wondered if i could come around for some free anything goes sex with her. She showed everything and looked sexy on cam. The catch? Well it would be on cam and her Saudi boyfriend would be watching and presumably funding the endeavours. Seemed like too much potential for severe embarrassment to save 1000P to me.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  27. William_Saw
    Inactive

    Most of them are woman looking for white men from America and Europe, their one way ticket out of the Philippines.

    Asians, please don't waste your time.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  28. GregLondon
    Inactive

    Mall Hunting: What's the secret??

    Having been her a while and being relatively net savvy I feel I have got a good handle on the net dating scene. However though one gets plenty of "interested" glances wandering around a typical Phils Mall, I have had very little success in converting this interest into results. Would anyone with a better track record like to give some useful advice as to a modus operandi?
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  29. David_33
    Inactive

    This guy has some tips:

    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply
  30. Mongerer69
    Inactive

    Wha does Mhuaw mean?

    I have been communicating with a girl I've met several times in HK and Manila and she always ends the message ending with "Mhuaw".

    Does anybody know the actual meaning of mhuaw?

    I've done some research and have come up blank.
    Posted 4 years ago | #Reply

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